Unfortunately, not all men notice that they are doing something wrong while having sex. However, women notice everything. Therefore, we have asked our clients to help us make up the list of top sex mistakes men make to help you, my dear reader, avoid them and bring your partner sheer pleasure.
Sex mistake #1. He does not care about the place. Of course, every woman has her own idea of what the best place and time to have sex is. Still, if she accepts your variant, the place must be tidy. Make sure there are no empty pizza boxes, beer cans, your dirty socks thrown all over the floor. Air the room, tidy it, prepare light music, a glass of wine or champagne, etc.
Sex mistake #2. He misses out on foreplay. Sometimes, when we are swept away by the passion and emotions, we can skip the moment of foreplay, but… More often, you must leave enough time for it, since foreplay lets a woman get ready for sex. How long does the foreplay have to last? You decide. Look at the woman’s reaction, and, I am sure, you will understand, when she is ready.
Sex mistake #3. He does not control his feelings. You have managed to be reserved enough to see her wearing a super-sexy low-cut dress and smiling seductively at you. You have even managed to control yourself when she “unintentionally” put her hand on your thigh. So, why should you lose control in bed? Do not turn into a fierce bull. Your being reserved in bed will make your partner want you even more, which will definitely result in awesome sex.
Sex mistake #4. He ignores the girl’s body language. Women are quite shy creatures and very often they just can’t say directly what they want in sex. However, women’s body will give you the best signals. Your task is to see them. Pay attention to how the girl reacts to your touch and you will understand if she wants you to be more gentle or tougher. Remember: she is a real woman, not a doll.
Sex mistake #5. He wants everything at once. Women prefer to try something extraordinary with a partner, who they know well and trust. So, if you are not that close yet, do not try to force the issue. Integrate new positions and your fantasies slowly and methodically.
Sex mistake #6. He does not respect the woman. Porn films often picture macho-men, who do not care much about their partners, as cool lovers. However, in reality, it does not work. In the beginning, a woman can play along, to heat you up, but if you continue your game, her reaction will be negative. If you want to try some of the “porn” tricks like ejaculating on your woman, or teasing her, you must be sure that she will like it.
Sex mistake #7. He is bossy. If you want to let your partner know about your wishes in bed – the position you would like to try, the way the girl has to move, you must not command. You can ask her to do something in a soft voice, looking tenderly into her eyes. It will also be good not to say anything at all, but direct her body gently and follow her reaction. Gentle approach is more efficient.
Sex mistake #8. He ignores the woman’s erogenous areas. You have already heard more than once that a woman’s erogenous areas are not limited by her breast only. Try caressing her collarbone, move slowly down her spine with your fingers, kiss her thighs and legs, play with her feet…
Sex mistake #9. He thinks that if he has had an orgasm, his partner is also pleased. Remember, that a woman took part in a sexual act too and she would also like to feel an orgasm. Your task is to at least try to satisfy her. If she has not imitated anything, she will not ask you to talk to her long hours; she would choose to have a sleep with you.
Sex mistake #10. He leaves immediately after sex. It is one of the worst things you can do. If you cannot stand being with a woman you have had sex with so much, you have to talk to her at least for half an hour before you leave and next time use the services of a professional. That will be fair.