If you want to impress your woman with your sexual skills, you do not need to study the basics of Tantric sex or Kama Sutra. There are a few very simple things, which every man can do to please his partner.
Here are 10 great sex tips, which will help you to become the best lover
Sex tip #1. Be neat. It is true that men and women are attracted to each other with their natural aroma, however if your aroma is too natural, girls will hardly want to deal with you. You must cherish hygiene, especially if you are going to have an evening with a nice woman. So, if you have the slightest chance, take a shower before jumping into bed. If you are clean and fresh, you have more chances to find someone else there ;-).
Sex tip #2. Talk to her. A conversation may sometimes be the most important factor of good sex. If you cannot think of any original phrase, be direct and ask the girl what she wants, but act as if you are the character from one of the love movies – speak in a whisper and breathy. If the girl replies in the same way, this conversation about sex could become a foreplay.
Sex tip #3. Do not hurry. The woman will appreciate your slow pace, since this is how she will manage to tune up to the necessary pace and rhythm, which she needs to feel the orgasm. If you need extra brakes, you should buy condoms, containing special anesthetic lubricant, which will help you keep the situation under control.
Sex tip #4. Learn the basics. Before trying to experiment with new positions, techniques or sex scenarios, make sure that you know the basics. For example, you may think that you know everything about the missionary position; however, your movements can be absolutely different with a different girl.
Sex tip #5. Do not push on her. A good lover knows that offering his partner something new and making her try it are two different things. Crossing the limits in bed can be really exciting at times, still, before doing that you must learn to understand when “no” means really “no”. Pushing on her to make something that does not turn her on, can quickly kill the sexual mood.
Sex tip #6. Have enough time. It is true that spontaneity is an inseparable part of harmonious sexual relationship, however, you must not forget about planning. If you spend more time with each other without being distracted by what is going on outside your bedroom, your sex will definitely be mind-blowing.
Sex tip #7. Use the prop wisely. Toys, lubricants, massage oil can surely make your sexual life better. However, you can use these if you have been with the same girl for a long time. At the early stages of relationship, passion is what inspires sex. If the girl asks, you should not save on stimulating oils and sex toys. But never offer such things yourself, or the girl will think that you are a pervert.
Sex tip #8. Do not keep the compliments to yourself. If your girl looks great, let her know about it immediately. Your words can help her tune up. Moreover, you could show the girl you think she is beautiful without saying a word. Just kiss her passionately and this may become the first step to a sexual act.
Sex tip #9. Remember about zones. Everyone knows where a woman’s sensitive areas are – these are shown close-up in porno movies. However, there are other buttons, which you can press. Pay attention to the girl’s earlobes, backside of her knees, inner side of her thighs, feet, and, of course, lips.
Sex tip #10. Be a wise egoist. You have probably heard that a good lover must please his partner first, and only then himself. Still, you must not forget that trying to think only about the girl’s pleasure, you will forget about yours and, consequently, your sex will be unnatural and not pleasing at all.