As we have already written, our policy is not only to find you a girlfriend, my dear men, but also to help you make your relationship strong. Therefore, this article is devoted to a very important issue: that is what questions are inacceptable to ask your Ukrainian girlfriend. To make our advice more efficient, we will share two points of view: the first one will be from women and the second one from men.
What do women think?
If your Ukrainian girlfriend has not named the topics she cannot stand, you could ask about anything you want. The way she will react to your question is her own business. For example, asking one girl something like: “ Have you thought about going to the gym?” will make one answer “No.”, while another girl will run away in tears being offended with such a tactless question. Unfortunately, you cannot know beforehand, what can offend your interlocutor. What is a taboo topic for one girl, is another one’s favourite thing to discuss.
However, you must always think of the form of your questions. Asking a Ukrainian girlfriend something, do not make any suppositions of yours like: “ You are N years old and not married yet?” What? Who has set the age limit to being married? Not she, definitely. It’s only yours.
The questions having some continuation are even worse. “ You aren’t still married, are you? It’s high time, actually. You are going to be N years old soon. Biological clock is ticking…” Asking something like this will not only offend the girl, but can even put your health at risk. At least I would kick someone asking me such a question.
Let us make a conclusion: you can ask any question you want, but make sure you do not make any suppositions or give any advice if you have not been asked to do that.
What do men think?
What questions to ask a Ukrainian girlfriend? Everything depends on how close you are. If you live together, or are close enough, you can ask anything you want, there can be no secrets between two lovers. Still, if you are just on the way to serious relationship, there are some questions you should avoid asking.
- Do not ask the girl about some faults in her appearance or clothing. ( Why don’t you shave legs/hands? Why haven’t you used a concealer to hide this spot on your nose? Why do you wear this or that piece of closing if it does not look good on you? Why don’t you dye this strand of grey hair?)
- The topic of marriage and kids is also a kind of taboo, since every girl has her parents and relatives who keep on asking these questions.
- Do not ask about the number of her sexual partners. Even if she answers you, it will be a lie in 95 cases of 100. If you are interested in her health, find the way to tactically offer her to have medical tests together. By doing so, you will show that you care about her and yourself.
- I would advise not to ask your Ukrainian girlfriend about her weight. She knows everything herself.
- Do not ask about her salary and how much she spends on clothes. How much money her parents give to her, etc.
- Do not ask about her friends and what they look like.
- It is better not to ask about her plans for the future. First of all because it is a too personal question, secondly girls do not always think about that.
- I do not recommend to ask your Ukrainian girlfriend about her previous relationship. How long it lasted, why she broke up with her ex. If the girl wants, she will tell you everything herself.
- It is not a good idea to ask something like: Where shall we go? Your place or mine? So, now let’s go to my place, shall we?
- “Why?”, “So what?” after the girl asks you something.
- “Can I kiss you?”, “ Do you like me?”, “Am I your type?”
- Any questions about “these days” an hygienic procedures are absolutely prohibited.
Finally, I would advise you to ask your Ukrainian girlfriend “How do you want it to be done?” rather than “ Do you like it?” or “ How do you like it?”
What do I (author) personally think?
I do agree that you could ask your Ukrainian girlfriend any question. However, make sure that you are a real gentleman and will not offend her. In case you have said something wrong, apologise immediately and leave this topic at least for some time… maybe the girl is not ready to discuss it now, but later she could touch this topic herself.